Couple? Why in a sudden I write bout this.
Well, perhaps because a few conversation I had recently.
Well, being Single at 25 does not matter for myself but I have to prepare myself to answer the most popular question whenever and wherever you go;
BILA NAK KAHWIN?
Well, my top answers are;
1) XDE CALON
2) XPrepare lagi
3) Malas nak PK..ada jodoh nanti kahwin la
4) Lambat lagi….Kita Enjoy…hahaha
5) Ignore the question and start new topic..hihihihi….
The fact is I’m not thinking bout this at all at the moment.
And I’m absolutely sure that I’m not ready and prepared enough for the stage of life which we called marriage. Perhaps, people will question what does a "couple relationship" relate to a marriage. Well, for me - it does relate because I’m not in the age of want to have a lovey dovey relationship anymore. Absolutely, not for my age. Did I sound older? Anyway, I have no time to waste for thing which not bring anything in return.
Second, perhaps I’m not found a guy who r made for me yet. So just wait for the day.
Third, I’m totally love my freedom. I enjoy doing my stuff without thinking bout another party of my life. I love do things that I love. I love spending my time with anyone, anytime, any way I like. I’m absolutely forbid GUY who want to control my freedom…Vote for MY freedom
Well, a person do suggest to me today "You should find a chinesse boyfriend. He absolutely not care you go out with anyone. As long as you did go home at the end of the day".
Should I consider this suggestion. I think any man will have this kind dominan feeling towards his partner of life. Would there an exception for a Chinese GUY. I dunno…Just based on my experience, it does differ a Malay guy and non Malay guy treat a woman in a relationship. Most Malay guy have this pretty dominan (control) "feature" and high pride + ego within theirselves.P/S: I’m not racist to my own race.
Anyway, I may not sellable or marketable enough for guy out there for these reasons;
Would a guy consider to take a girl who;
1) fail in replying SMS immediately. A Record, I did reply a simple HI & What r U doing SMS after 3 days received it.
2) the guy at second place. Job first
3) Well, I’m not going out if I’m tired or have no feeling to go out. Straight away inform my thought. I’m not good at please people…by the way I do think that honest is an important value in relationship..so just being honest.
4) Physical is subjective but it does effect my confidence cause people always said to me "what a skinny girl. No guy would…………………."
5) In certain situation, people does missunderstand me as under age (under 18). "Sorry this movie is for 18 and above" (In my mind :What the heck), My reply: I’m XX years old, you need my IC
By the way just wanna share my feeling when people talk bout this around me. But I still have to run away for potential interviewer with this kind of question especially when I balik kg.
